Promise

prom·ise (Noun)

1. a declaration that something will or will not be done
2. an express assurance on which expectation is to be based
3. something that has the effect of an express assurance; indication of what may be expected.

Above is the meaning i obtained from dictionary.com..
when this word is raised, a certain level of trust and responsibility is expected;
from the person who made the PROMISE and also the person he/she made the PROMISE to...

y people loves to make promises??

to what i had seen and felt is that.. promises and been made too easily in this current world..
some people simply misuse "promise"...
to them, its just a tool..
a tool that is used to please and to pacify the other party...
in an other word, its just said to"make their life easier for THAT moment"
but how long do they keep to their promise?? will they really remember their promise??
i really have doubt in this..

PRomise Made

when a promise is made to us, we "TRY" to believe as much as we could...
but dissappointed usually hits... time after time...
Eventually... we loose hope;
"Promise" cant be trusted; some people simply cant be trusted...

of cos this does not apply to all...
there are really responsible fellows who keeps their promises...
by HEART...
they kept it in mind all the time..
i Respect people like this... cos these are the people whom i say that they are "TRUE"
True as in they dont harm; wont lie; wont misuse relationship...
This is the kind of people whom will be treasure by all, LOve by all, RESPECTED by all...

Excuses?? Reasons??

i am sure all of us had heard tonnes of excuses why promises are broke...
i am sure all of us had heard tonnes of reasons why promises are broke...
it all depends on how we gonna analyse the situation...

to them (people who broke promise) its a reason; they usually claim that they didnt expect this to happen...
to those (who believes that the promise ahld b kept) takes their reasons as excueses...

how are we gonna be fair to both parties in situation like tt??
Who is right??
No one knows...
wat i feel is simply, "how much u trust the person"
if you trust him/her.. buy the reason and treat it as a reason...
if you dont... Simply ignore and forget... but... beware when the next promise is made...

Trust

this is built over time and gadged according to individual opinion...
wont wanna go into detail.. cos it will be an old granny story again..

All i can say is "Believe or not, Lies in u; Trust or not; Depends on u"
Individual Heart Plays a very important role...

"If you wan your deserved TRUST and RESPECT; Kindly KEEP YOUR PROMISES!!"
"WHEN YOU SAY IT; MEAN IT"