Relationship Shld b kept SImple

wat is the kind of relationship that will really last and work out well??

1. Simple and plain..
jus involves the 2 of u.. no major up and downs, no major conflicts, no family issues, no additional sparks?? is this considered

2. Dramatic relationship.. as in those that has begins wif alot of commercials... have alot of whoo har in between and requires alot of attention from ppl around

which is the better one, or shld i say which is the more suitable one..

I alwaes believes that love is smthg tat belows to 2 person... regardless how u feel for one anothere initially, as long as u accept and try.. thgs eventualli will work out..

most impt is the trust in one another.. esp when we are in the workin society.. in the world of competition.. time is precious, no one can afford time for foolin ard... trust is very impt.. wif the little amount of trust, one can go very far wif no worry... and thats how life shld b in this current world..

but trust MUST NOT be misused... once misused and caught, i am sure it will never be the same anymore... regarldless how much u try to convince yourself.. the flaw will alwaes b there... thgs will NEVER be the same anymore!

Definitly we will have doubts, as in:
how to find a relationship like that?
how many couples can really do that??
how much can i believe??

there are, i am sure.. there are alwaes the fortunate few.. the blessed ones..
so dear friends, if any of you happened to be the fortunate one, Please, treasure it...

recentli i met some new friends, some new ppl ard me.. n i also learned abt how some of my friends handle relationship... hmmm.. alot to read into.. alot to take into consideration.. wat i really conclude is that..

"human made relationship (BGR) complicating"

and if u dun handle it well.. u might just.. loose it... or hurt urself.. relationship must realli handled wif caution and love... too much love blinds a preson.. too much caution cause self enclosin.. everythg needs a limit.. needs to be neutralized.....

Man

What is the kind of guy we should be lookin for..

a Guy who u can Trust??
a Guy who u can share??
a Guy who u can rely on??
a Guy who u have confidence in??

but how are we gonna categorize the type of guy we want?? and how to go abt settin criteria..
at times I had been wonderin.. shld we set criteria??
should we set a standard for wat we want or guy to be??

but to be frank, even we had everyting set in mind...
how mani gers on earth can get their ideal man.. a man that fits into ALL her criteria??
n if the guy struggle to meet to mark.. is it worth it?? will it help in a relationship??
seriously, I have doubts in this....

usually wat we gers wan frm our guy is pretty simple...
stability, truthful, love and care...
care comes frm how much love u put into the relationship...
truthful means no lies.. tts easy if ur man really loves u..
Stability comes in various forms..
Work: whether he takes his wrk seriously
Relationship: is he a flirt or jus too gd wif gers...
if a guy can at least fulfill these 4 pts.. gers are willing to settle down...
I can say.. generally NORMAL gers..
excluding the playful ones...

Woman

bein a lady myself.. I believes that maintaining relationship requires a lot of wrk on our side..
a gf is like a part time wife..
u have to fulfill a lot of task n services to a man…
as in mentally and physically...
wat I mean is bein a friend to ur guy...
mentally: b a companion whom he can talk to and can share wif...
physically: run errands.. prepare stuff.. jus the simple simple lady job.. they are all plus pts for woman..
try not to grumble too much and nag too much...
always remember..
1 mummy is enough..there isn't a need for 2...

pls be sensitive... BUT not OVER sensitive...
sensitive shows that u care.. over sensitive shows that there isn't any trust...
woman can be sweet when they are a little sensitive..
woman are TERROR when they are OVER sensitive...
if u really like a man.. trust him (if he is true all along).. hold back and observe silently (if there are bad experiences).
Never never be over sensitive.. I am sure.. all guys hate it..
everyone hates the feeling of not being trusted..

Respect ur guy as a Man..
this doesn’t apply to oni MCP.. but generally all guys...
respect them and learn to give them 'face' as and when the situation require...
if u handle this well..
ur man gonna love u to the max..
NEVER create a din in the public..
this is absolutely UGLY..
both to u and ur boy..
its shows how unreasonable u r and how UGLY a woman can be...
if your guy kept quiet in the process.. he is seen as a coward or he dun really bother abt u which is no good..
if he screams and make a scene.. OMG.. u sure that’s how a man should behave??

"Be a Lady, Make life easy for u and your partner"

Wat relationship really requires is some self control and respect for urself and others..
Love ur ger/boy as much as u love urself..
Respect ur ger/boy as much as u Respect urself..
Trust ur ger/boy as much as u he/she deserve...
Always be TRUE!!