friend is a person for us to show care and concern...
to talk to and to listen to...

friends are alwaes important..
n i never believe that one can survive w/o a friend...
w/o friend, life would b boring...
friends keep u company, talk to u, n care for u...

but all these doesnt mean that u have to be possessive...
being possesive shows that a person is selfish and worse of all...
this person is pathetic..
he/she simply dun have enough friends... and no enough understandin...
y do i say so...
u oni wanna possess a preson or thg when u are afraid of loosin it...
reason for the fear...
no confidence...
no confindence in urself n ur friend...
no other people to turn to; so if dun grab wats in front of him/her.. he/she might have no one by her......
so he/she jus simply anyhow grab..
isnt this sad...

i pity people who is help captive by possessive character...
they loose their rights, their freedom, their thkin...

this might not apply to all...
but my point here is tt...
recentli i had been seein cases like tt...
i realli doubt whether these people knows wats friends for and
wat friendship means...

n to those who realli dun know...
pls refer to below:

friend (frěnd) n. 1. A person whom one knows, likes, and trusts. 2. A person whom one knows; an acquaintance. 3. A person with whom one is allied in a struggle or cause; a comrade. 4. One who supports, sympathizes with, or patronizes a group, cause, or movement: friends of the clean air movement.

friend·ship –noun
1. the state of being a friend; association as friends: to value a person's friendship.
2. a friendly relation or intimacy.
3. friendly feeling or disposition.


Please take a closer look.. being possessive DOES NOT APPEAR in ANY of the definition...
so.. Please WAKE UP!!